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This Saturday i might be going on a date! I'm really excited and of course nervous, this guy is really nice and seems really genuine so of course i hope the date turns out well and even if it doesn't then it's an experience to grow from. I went to see my therapist yesterday and i talked to him about my date, what he does, some traits of his and one that i personally really like about him is that he's driven and passionate for his craft, i find that really attractive overall. It was nice talking to my therapist about how Saturday could potentially go, and he seemed proud of me and also excited for me in terms of change and the way that i'm growing from these past experiences. I hope that whatever i gain from this that i'll know that i at least tried something new again. I also talked to my therapist about the "period of time" once should date after being in a previous relationship and he told me the way i was going about it was fine as long as i don't carry judgment anymore and that i don't feelings associated with the previous relationship... and i'm so happy to say that i'm over it! I deserved so much more and i was blind at a lot of moments but now i can move onto greater things, which would be this date.

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